Me… and my ideas… and showing off my haircut. FYI in case anyone out there wonders… My hair went totally white and so I just… go with it. And now on to…
Respite Care Reform
Please read yesterday’s post where I describe respite care.
(Don’t get me wrong… I love the place and the people where I take my husband). But if I were asked…
I have been taking my husband to adult day care for a couple of years now, and I have some ideas for improvement…
What if there was/were
- curb service drop in/pick up so that the person using a walker would not ever have to walk across a parking lot and the caregiver would not need to get out of the car. My husband is physically able but I see many that are not.
- a full service salon for haircut and nails during the times they are in care? It isn’t easy for caregivers to do this.
- beds for nap time because having a rested person to pick up would be nice. For my husband the respite care is busy busy. Too busy.
- daily, all day care for working people. Maybe employers would allow their employees a little allowance to assist with the expense of this. Or, maybe there could be some tax remedy to allow people to afford it. Our day care is five hours, three times a week which I am thankful for but it doesn’t allow me enough time to work.
- a calm schedule with activities for people who want to participate and movies or television for those who like to sit and watch. It would be nice to keep the person from being worn out from the day.
Sometimes we people who give care forget about our own needs, independent from the ones who depend solely on our energy, our kindness, our patience. Respite allows us to recharge those finite resources. If you aren’t already seeking respite… go out there and find it.